Drummond Sheree6 months agoI’m a second-year college Physics student in the US, and I need some advice. There’s this girl, let’s call her W, who’s also in a STEM field related to Math. We’re friends through mutual friends, and while we’ve talked a few times, we’re not super close. I’m unsure if she’s into me, so here’s the story: The first time she invited me to do something together was when she asked me to go to a bakery with her and some other friends. I had to decline because I had an exam, but I said I was open to hanging out another time. A couple of weeks passed, and I forgot about it, thinking it was just a group thing with no special interest. Then, one day, she asked me to go see a theater play, and I agreed, assuming it was another group thing. But then she asked if I wanted to walk there with her, and I said yes. Unfortunately, I had a last-minute emergency in the lab, so I ended up arriving a bit late. I felt bad, but when I got there, the play hadn’t started yet, and I was surprised to find her sitting alone. I thought she’d be with other friends, but they never showed up. I don’t know if it was her plan for us to hang out alone or if they just didn’t show up. Anyway, I walked her back to her room, and we talked about going to other plays, and she agreed. A couple of weeks later, I found another play, told her about it, and she agreed to come again. This time, we went together, just the two of us, and not with any other friends. She also dressed a bit more formally than me or anyone else there, though not super formal. Now, I’m not sure if she came because she likes me or if she’s just into theater plays. We still message each other occasionally, but it’s nothing obsessive, just like 5-6 messages a week since she traveled and I’ve been busy with stuff. I don’t think she has a boyfriend; I saw her with a guy about a year ago when the whole friend group was watching a movie, but I haven’t seen her with him since. One last thing: we have common bathrooms on each floor, and I tend to sing loudly sometimes. She told me I sing well, which is kind of embarrassing but nice. I’m also not a native English speaker, so trying to apply any kind of “Rizz” is more challenging haha. I’ve been here for almost a year now. I just want to make sure she’s into me before I make any moves since we live in the same building at the university, and I don’t want to mess things up if it’s not serious. Do you guys have any advice?139
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