Euphemia Dederick5 months agoI (23F) have been in a relationship with my boyfriend (25M) for a year and a half. Everything was going smoothly, full of love and understanding. We rarely fought, communicated well, and our families knew each other. I loved him deeply. However, at the end of December, I discovered that he was cheating on me with a co-worker. Despite knowing this, I tried to express my feelings gently and asked him for clarity on his decision. He chose her. It turns out that, all along, he never saw me as "the one." He tried hard to make it work, even introducing me to his parents, but ultimately, he couldn't picture a future with me. Instead, he saw that future with his co-worker. She, too, has been in a long-term relationship for six years, but he chose to "gamble" and pursue her because he sees her as the one. I'm devastated not only by his actions but by the fact that he harbored doubts about us. I feel conflicted because even though I'm hurt, I can't bring myself to be angry with him. Instead, my heart breaks even more when I see him crying, apologizing, and telling me he tried. Why does someone have doubts like this? How can I move on and heal from this after giving him my all?146
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