Lyall Jeffrey6 months agoAre you in love with your spouse, or do you just love them? I realize the definition of each varies from person to person. My husband and I have been together for 13 years, married for 8, and we have 3 small kids. Over the last few years, I’ve been worried about the lack of passion and chemistry between us, which, for me, creates that “in love” feeling. We’ve been to therapy, separated, and gotten back together, making significant progress. But even with all the effort, I still don’t feel “in love” with him—I just love him. Is this normal? Am I overthinking it?190
