Josslyn Delmara year agoI've been married to my husband (30M) for 6 years, and we’ve been together for over 10 years. We have a 3-year-old, and we love each other deeply—he’s my best friend. There’s a man (38M) that my husband works with who seems to have a crush on me. He frequently brings coffee-related items to work for my husband to give to me, and he doesn’t do that for anyone else’s wife. He also asks about me specifically, not my husband, and his behavior seems to indicate an interest in me. I get a thrill out of the fact that this guy is attracted to me. I don't know why, but it’s a turn-on to me to know there’s another man who finds me appealing. I've found myself daydreaming about him and creating scenarios involving us. I want to emphasize that there is no way I would ever act on this or do anything to hurt my marriage. I’m just wondering why I feel guilty about it and why I’m fantasizing about someone else. TL;DR: I get a thrill knowing my husband's coworker is into me. Should I feel guilty? Why am I fantasizing about another man?1833
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